Your Response Matters

People are always watching and listening, whether we realize it or not. They may not remember every word we say, but they will remember how we respond when life gets difficult. Our reactions to adversity, setbacks, and challenges often speak louder than our successes. Someone is learning from your example, drawing strength trom your perseverance, or being influenced by your attitude. That’s why our response matters. The way we handle life’s difficult moments can either inspire hope, demonstrate character, and encourage others—or do the opposite. Be mindful, because your response may be making a bigger impact than you know.

You Are Uniquely and Wonderfully Made

You are uniquely and wonderfully made. You were created on purpose, for a purpose. You have meaning, value and worth!

Once upon a time, some animals wanted to start a school. They decided the courses would include running, climbing, swimming, and flying. Then they decided that all of the animals should take all of the courses.

That’s where the problem started.       

The duck was better than his teacher at swimming, but he only made passing grades in flying and was very poor in running. So they made him drop swimming and stay after school to practice running. This caused his webbed feet to be badly worn, and his grade dropped to average in swimming. But everybody felt less threatened and more comfortable with that—except the duck.

The rabbit started at the top of his class in running, but because of so much makeup work in swimming, he caught pneumonia and had to drop out of school.

The squirrel showed outstanding ability in climbing, but he was extremely frustrated in flying class because the teacher insisted that he start from the ground up rather than the treetop down. He developed charley horses from overextension, so he only got a “C” in climbing and a “D” in running.

The eagle was the problem student and was disciplined for being a nonconformist. For instance, in climbing class he beat all the others to the top of the tree, but he insisted on flying to get there. Finally, because he refused to participate in swimming class, he was expelled.

As you might imagine, the animals’ school didn’t work.

Different animals are designed to excel in specific areas, and they can’t be expected to do all the other things. A duck is made to be a duck—not anything else.

It’s the same for people. God has designed each person different from all the others. When you expect everyone to fit in the same mold, the result is frustration, discouragement, mediocrity, and failure.

It’s so easy to compare ourselves to someone else. This creates either pride or feelings of low self esteem.

It’s so easy to get frustrated. I get frustrated with you because you’re not like me and I get frustrated with myself because I’m not like you.

Or we experience the Imposter Syndrome-we are familiar with this and have in some form or the other felt or experienced this.

However, Ephesians says that we are the workmanship of God created beforehand for good works. 

Workmanship is where we get our word—poem. It signifies a work of art. It as if when you were born God picked up a pen and started writing your life story or started painting a picture of what your life was going to be.

You are a unique masterpiece. You are a unique creation.

No one else is exactly like you.

It’s your shape that makes you uniquely you.

S-strengths: what you have developed over time that you are good at.

H-heart: what you desire, what is important to you, what you hold near and dear and value.

A-abilities: what you are good at that comes naturally.

P-personality: your basic nature, how and why you do what you do.

E-experience: what you have encountered that has now become something that you have built upon.

Don’t dare compare—you are a unique masterpiece—you be you!

Small Habits Can Make A Big Difference

Small choices.

Small habits.

Small adjustments.

Small contributions.

Over time, they can create massive change.

A degree here, a step there, a little extra effort each day—and eventually you look back and realize those “little things” have shaped your entire life.

Never underestimate the power of consistent, quiet contributions. Tiny shifts today can create a completely different tomorrow.

#inspirational #metanoia #hope #perspective

It Takes Wisdom to Wait

It Takes Wisdom to Wait…

1. Wait before you speak when you don’t know the entire story.

2. Wait before drawing conclusions when you don’t have all the facts.

3. Wait before responding, giving others the opportunity to speak first.

“Assumption is a fragile frame of reference.”

> Pause before making assumptions.

> Pause before making accusations.

> Pause before causing an argument.

“But those who wait on the Lord Shall renew their strength; They shall mount up with wings like eagles, They shall run and not be weary, They shall walk and not faint.” —Isaiah 40:31 NKJV

#inspirational #metanoia #hope #fyp #perspective

Attitude Is Everything

Joseph could have pouted in the pit, pleaded his case at Potiphar’s house or protested at the prison, but instead he kept the right attitude and was promoted to the palace at the exact right time. He treated people who had mistreated him—well and he handled situations that had been mishandled—well. Therefore, he went from the pit to the palace all by God’s hand and all in God’s timing. #inspirational #metanoia #hope #fyp #hope

WAITING

Tom Petty gave us the song that says, “The waiting is the hardest part”, and I think that I would have to agree with Tom. Waiting is never easy, especially when you are waiting on God to move or you are waiting for a promise to be fulfilled. You’ve prayed and you have believed but yet there is no answer, or no tangible manifestation of what you are believing for– no evidence of what you desire to see come to pass or to take place. Mary and Martha were in this same position and they were friends with Jesus! They had had moments of enjoying one another’s company and they had shared conversations over meals together. They had done life and shared numerous experiences, but this one was different. Lazarus their brother had been sick and is now dead, so they call for Jesus. The problem is, He shows up 4days later. Nevertheless, He was right on time! He raises Lazarus from the dead. And, after several personal dialogues of questions being asked and questions being answered—everyone is happy and God is glorified. Even though Jesus showed up late—He was still right on time! Even though it doesn’t happen the way you had planned it or how you thought it should happen– You can trust the timing of God!

the Relational Part of The Resurrection

Have you ever doubted, wept or been frustrated? Have you ever said you wouldn’t, but you did! This clip is for you.

“For I delivered to you first of all that which I also received: that Christ died for our sins according to the Scriptures, and that He was buried, and that He rose again the third day according to the Scriptures, and that He was seen by Cephas, then by the twelve. After that He was seen by over five hundred brethren at once, of whom the greater part remain to the present, but some have fallen asleep. After that He was seen by James, then by all the apostles.” I Corinthians‬ ‭15‬:‭3‬-‭7‬

“Now as they said these things, Jesus Himself stood in the midst of them, and said to them, “Peace to you.” But they were terrified and frightened, and supposed they had seen a spirit. And He said to them, “Why are you troubled? And why do doubts arise in your hearts? Behold My hands and My feet, that it is I Myself. Handle Me and see, for a spirit does not have flesh and bones as you see I have.” When He had said this, He showed them His hands and His feet. But while they still did not believe for joy, and marveled, He said to them, “Have you any food here?” So they gave Him a piece of a broiled fish and some honeycomb. And He took it and ate in their presence.” Luke‬ ‭24‬:‭36‬-‭43‬

Don’t Wash Your Nets Just Yet

*Luke 5:1-11 / John 21:1-14

  • They Toiled
  • They Tried
  • They were Tired
  • They were Troubled 
  • And They were Tested

Inconvenience Will:

  1. Test Your Faith
  2. Try Your Patience
  3. Take You Deeper

They were washing their nets.

*Pebbles, weeds, dirt, mud and debris. Life can get messy!

When they would wash their nets they would be removing debree; but they would also be repairing and reinforcing.

A net is only as strong as what it’s connected to.

They were tired… they were frustrated… they were done! 

Frustration occurs when you put forth effort without a desired result. Burnout occurs when frustration continues without a resolve or different outcome.

  • It’s so easy to get frustrated.
  • It’s so easy to experience burnout. 
  • It’s common to get tired of life’s routines and responsibilities. 

We are truly the Lords stewards…

  • the earth is the Lords and the fullness thereof! *Psalm 24:1 – however, He has given us dominion.
  • the Lord knew us before we were. They for we existed in the heart of God before we were ever born through natural birth. We came from God, but we came through our parents. Jeremiah 1:5 – therefore we are stewards of our children which are a gift from God. 
  • we are stewards of the earth, our marriage, our children, our job, our homes, our possessions, our responsibilities, our relationships, our finances… everything! That’s why we get weary and tired! 

They were washing their nets, probably while Jesus was teaching. You don’t 

wash your nets until you’re FINISHED fishing… 

  • What are you ready to wash your hands of?
  • What are you frustrated with?
  • What are you finished with? 
  • What are you tired of? 
  • What have you toiled with? 
  • What are you troubled by?
  • What are you being tested with?

The question is what have you decided to wash your hands of that God may be saying, “try again.”

Someone said, “I through in the towel and God through it back and said, ‘wipe the sweat off your face and keep going’!”

What is it that you have the the Lord is wanting to use. What is it that He desires to be in the center of? 

The boat that caught the fish was the boat Jesus was in. What if we invited Jesus into the center of our home, marriage, children, jobs, and money, stead of washing our hands of it?

They forsook all and followed the Lord. Isn’t it interesting when we receive what we desire it’s then we realize it’s not what we truly want or need. It’s the Lord and His presence that we truly desire and truly need.