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A Broom Tree Kind of Day

A Broom Tree Kind of Day

If you have ever been discouraged to the point of wanting to give up…

If you have ever been intimidated by what others have said…

If you have ever been disappointed by the way things turned out…

If you have ever wanted everyone to just leave you alone…

If you have ever wondered, “What’s the use?”

Or if you have ever felt like you were the only one going through what you were going through…

This message is for you.

Elijah was a man of God—a prophet who knew the voice of God, obeyed God, and had experienced God’s plans, purpose, power, and provision firsthand.

He had been provided for at the brook and fed by ravens.

He had watched God provide through a widow and miraculously multiply her flour and oil.

He had prayed over her dead son and watched God restore his life.

He had stood boldly before Ahab, confronted the prophets of Baal, watched fire fall from heaven, and prayed until the rain returned after three and a half years of drought.

Elijah knew what it was like to see God do the impossible.

But now he was running from Jezebel.

The same man who stood fearlessly before 450 prophets of Baal was now afraid of the threat of one woman.

The same man who had just watched fire fall from heaven was now sitting underneath a broom tree asking God to let him die.

“But he himself went a day’s journey into the wilderness, and came and sat down under a broom tree. And he prayed that he might die…” —1 Kings 19:4

Elijah was having a broom tree kind of day.

Have you ever had one?

A day when yesterday’s victories don’t seem strong enough to overcome today’s discouragement.

A day when you know God has been faithful, but you’re just tired.

A day when you’ve poured into everyone else and feel like you have nothing left to pour.

A day when one negative voice seems louder than a hundred reminders of God’s faithfulness.

A day when you don’t necessarily want to quit forever—you just don’t want to keep doing this anymore.

That’s a broom tree kind of day.

But here is what I love about the story:

God did not abandon Elijah underneath the broom tree.

God didn’t lecture him.

God didn’t condemn him.

God met him where he was.

Elijah slept, and an angel touched him and said, “Arise and eat.”

God gave him rest. God gave him provision. God gave him strength. And eventually, God gave him direction.

Sometimes the most spiritual thing you can do when you’re exhausted is rest long enough to hear God again.

And don’t miss this:

It’s always the Lord’s provision.

The angel may have delivered it, but God was the source.

God knew what Elijah needed before Elijah knew what was coming next.

The broom tree wasn’t Elijah’s destination.

It was a stopping place.

His discouragement didn’t cancel his calling.

His exhaustion didn’t erase his purpose.

His fear didn’t negate his faith.

And one bad day didn’t determine the rest of his life.

Eventually Elijah came to Horeb, where God spoke to him—not in the wind, the earthquake, or the fire, but in a still, small voice.

There is something powerful about a whisper.

A whisper is intimate—you have to be close to hear it.

Maybe God wasn’t trying to become louder than everything happening around Elijah.

Maybe He was drawing Elijah closer.

Then God gave Elijah direction and reminded him of something he desperately needed to know: He wasn’t alone.

Elijah said, “I alone am left.”

But God told him there were still seven thousand who had not bowed to Baal.

What Elijah felt was real—but what Elijah felt was not necessarily true.

Never allow how you feel in a moment to define what is true about your life.

Sometimes you simply need to be reminded:

1. You’re doing better than you think you are. Your present struggle does not erase your past victories.

2. You have more going for you than you realize. God may be doing things around you, for you, and through you that you cannot see from where you are sitting.

3. God’s promises will come to pass. What you fear does not have the final word. God does.

And that may be one of the greatest lessons from Elijah’s broom tree:

What Elijah feared never happened.

Jezebel threatened his life, but her threat never became Elijah’s destiny.

Jezebel died.

Elijah lived.

What Elijah feared never came to pass—but what God said did.

And there was something else Elijah couldn’t see from underneath that broom tree: Elisha.

If Elijah had given up underneath the broom tree, there would have been no Elisha to receive the mantle and no double portion.

Elijah could only see the broom tree.

God could see the double portion.

Elijah still had an assignment to complete. There was still someone to anoint. Someone to mentor.

Someone who would pick up the mantle and carry the work forward.

Elijah couldn’t quit because his assignment wasn’t finished. And sometimes you don’t realize what is connected to your decision to keep going.

Someone may be waiting on the other side of your obedience.

Someone may need what God has placed inside of you.

Someone may eventually carry what God first entrusted to you.

So don’t make a permanent decision underneath a temporary broom tree.

When you’re under the broom tree, it’s easy to ask, “Why?” Why did this happen? Why did things turn out this way? Why am I going through this?

But often, there is more to the story than what we can see.

We see the moment; God sees the whole story. We see what happened; God sees what it’s producing. We see the disappointment; God sees the purpose. We see what was lost; God sees what’s ahead. We see the threat; God sees the triumph. We see the broom tree; God sees the mantle. We see where we are; God sees where we’re going.

And I love how Elijah’s story ultimately turned out:

Elijah was taken up, and Jezebel was taken out. The threat didn’t win. Fear didn’t win. Discouragement didn’t win. The broom tree didn’t win…God was faithful!

So remember:

You may feel alone—but you are not alone.

You may feel forgotten—but God has not forgotten you.

You may feel finished—but God may simply be preparing you for what’s next.

You may feel like giving up—but your broom tree may actually become the place where God restores your strength, renews your perspective, and reminds you that your story isn’t over.

So, if today happens to be a broom tree kind of day, rest if you need to. Eat something. Get quiet. Allow God to minister to you. But don’t build a house under the broom tree. You can stop there. You can rest there. You can recover there. But you can’t stay there!

Because there is still more ahead of you. There is still purpose in you. There are still people God will use you to impact. Your assignment may not be finished. Keep going.

And the God who sustained you at the brook, provided for you through the widow, answered you on the mountain, and sent the rain…

is still God underneath the broom tree.

The same God who met Elijah there will meet you there. The broom tree is not the end of your story.

What God has promised will come to pass!

“Thanks be to God, who always leads us in triumph in Christ.” —2 Corinthians 2:14

What you fear does not have the final word. God does. What Elijah fear never happened, but what God said did!

What Can We Learn From This Passage?

1. Circumstances may cause you to deviate, but if you don’t quit, God can use the detour to draw you closer to Him.

2. We all have “broom tree” kind of days. Days when we’re tired, discouraged, overwhelmed, and simply need to stop and recover.

3. If you are truly seeking God, He will not leave you alone. Even under the broom tree, God knows where you are and knows exactly what you need.

4. Sometimes God will let you wrestle with what you want until you’re ready to receive what you need. Elijah thought he wanted to die—but what he really needed was rest, nourishment, perspective, and a renewed sense of purpose.

5. What you have the courage to confront, God will give you the strength to conquer. You may have to face it, but you don’t have to face it alone—God is with you!

The broom tree wasn’t the end of Elijah’s story—it was a place of recovery on the way to what was next.

Don’t Allow an Offense to Become an Obstacle

“Make allowance for each other’s faults, and forgive anyone who offends you. Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others.”

Colossians 3:13

Trials, disappointments, and even offenses can become opportunities for God to refine our faith and strengthen us. 1 Peter 1:7 reminds us that genuine faith is tested and purified like gold in a fire.

Don’t allow an offense to become an obstacle in your moving forward.

Don’t allow what someone did—or what happened to you—to keep you from experiencing new beginnings, healthy relationships, new experiences, new opportunities, and new endeavors.

You may not be able to control the offense, but you can choose whether you carry it with you.

Forgive. Heal. Learn. Grow. Move forward.

And most importantly, don’t allow yesterday’s offense to steal today’s joy, tomorrow’s hope, or your peace along the way.

Burden or Blessing-You Choose!

“Burden or Blessing—You Choose!

“As leaders, parents, and spouses sometimes we have to know what others don’t know, do what others won’t do, and see what others can’t see.” This can at times become a “silent burden”.

I use the word “burden” loosely. However, it starts with the same syllable as “blessing” and I think it’s a good word picture to describe what I am trying to illustrate.  

Again, I’m talking about “Blessing or Burden You Choose!”

You have probably heard me say this many times— “don’t allow a blessing to become a burden.” However, for this not to happen, you must be intentional and continually mindful—you also must become more grateful!

You’ve all heard the phrase “The honeymoon wore off.” This phrase describes the excitement of something new beginning to fade, and familiarity taking its place. That’s when gratitude must become a choice. 

When this happens you must become intentional about recognizing the value of what you have before familiarity causes you to overlook it. 

Gratitude teaches us to see ordinary blessings with fresh eyes and to appreciate again what we may have stopped noticing.

That’s when “gratitude has to become intentional.” When this happens you move from the feeling of gratitude to the practice of gratitude.

And “When the honeymoon wears off, you must become intentional about being grateful.” Being grateful about what you already have.

That’s because it is so easy to take the everyday things for granted! The blessings that surround us every day become commonplace and we forget to be grateful for them. 

The following could be substituted for many areas of our lives, but these scenarios below are simple, yet practical areas that help illustrate my point.

Think about this . . .

We complain about traffic (traffic circles) because we have a car.

We complain about laundry because we have clothes.

We complain about doing the dishes because we ate.

We complain about cutting the grass because we have property.

We complain about packing because we get to travel.

We complain about taxes because we earned.

We complain about our job because we have one.

We complain about a full inbox because people need us and we have problems that only we can solve.

We complain about noise because we have a family and friends.

We complain about exercise because our bodies move.

We complain about wrinkles because we have lived.

We complain about gray hair because we have made it this far.

We complain about change because we are growing.

It is all a matter of perspective, and changing your perspective can help produce gratefulness and gratefulness can in turn cause you to see things differently! 

What if instead of complaining about traffic (traffic circles)—we were grateful that we have a car.

What if instead of complaining about laundry—we were grateful we have clothes.

What if instead of complaining about doing the dishes—we were grateful because we ate.

What if instead of complaining about cutting the grass—we were grateful because we have property.

What if instead of complaining about packing—we were grateful because we get to travel.

What if instead of complaining about taxes—we were grateful because we have earned.

What if instead of complaining about our job—we were grateful because we have one.

What if instead of complaining about a full inbox—we were grateful because people need us and we have problems to solve.

What if instead of complaining about noise—we were grateful because we have a family and friends.

What if instead of complaining about exercise—we were grateful because our bodies move.

What if instead of complaining about wrinkles—we were grateful because we have lived.

What if instead of complaining about gray hair—we were grateful because we have made it this far.

What if instead of complaining about change—we were grateful because we are growing.

Psalm 103:2—“Bless the LORD, O my soul, and forget not all his benefits.”

David is essentially telling himself, Don’t forget what God has done. Gratitude requires intentional remembrance.

1 Thessalonians 5:18—“In every thing give thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you.” 

This takes gratitude beyond a feeling and into a practice. “Giving thanks and being grateful” is an intentional action.

Being grateful is a matter of perspective—changing your perspective will help produce gratefulness and gratefulness will in time cause you to see things differently!

Blessing or a Burden—You Choose!

Teach Us to Tell Time & To Set Boundaries

Boundaries are not about being hateful or selfish. However, they are beneficial in terms of living a happy, healthy, prosperous and productive life. Time is precious and boundaries help protect the time we have been given. Time is a commodity that we can’t gain back.

“Time doesn’t wait for your permission as it passes by—it seeks your attention to prioritize what matters most.”

Psalms 90:12 says, “Teach us how short our lives are so that we can become wise.”

One of the ways that we can become wise and make the most of our lives is by setting healthy boundaries.

– A boundary is a personal property line.

– Boundaries help define who you are and they make it clear what you prioritize.

– Boundaries help define what you value. 

– Boundaries determine who and what you allow into your life. 

– Boundaries help define who and what you are responsible for.

– Boundaries are beneficial in every area and aspect of your life. 

– Boundaries create safe healthy parameters.

The difference between a swamp and a river is banks—and those banks are boundaries. 

The difference between a “mess” and “momentum” is usually healthy and intentional boundaries.

*Most of the time we don’t want to set boundaries because we don’t won’t to appear as being insensitive, mean or selfish. 

Nonetheless, in Matthew 14 Jesus shows us that it is not mean, hateful or insensitive to set boundaries. The passage tells us, that after He had fed them, blessed them and taught them—He sent them away. 

Boundaries are beneficial and they help prioritize what matters the most.

Boundaries Impact All Areas of Our Life:

1. Physical boundaries help determine who touches you and who is in your personal space and under what circumstances.

2. Mental boundaries give you the freedom to have your our own thoughts and opinions.

3. Emotional boundaries help you deal with your own emotions and disengage from the harmful manipulative emotions of others.

4. Spiritual boundaries help you distinguish God’s will from your own and from others. They will give you a freedom from your Creator and Maker that will establish peace and liberation.

Can you see why boundaries are so important now? 

Boundaries deal with every area of our lives.

What You Need to Realize

About Boundaries

1. You can set boundaries and still be a loving and kind person.

2. Boundaries that are legitimate still need to be established with wisdom and in balance.

3. Boundaries aren’t selfish; because they can truly benefit everyone involved.

Most of us don’t need more time, we just need more selective priorities and more intentional boundaries. 

Priorities and boundaries are what guard and grow the time that you’ve been given. They help protect you and your time.

“Teach us how short our lives are so that we can become wise.” Psalms 90:12

One of the ways that we gain wisdom and make the most of our lives is by setting healthy boundaries.

Lord, give us the wisdom and the courage to be intentional about creating healthy boundaries that will benefit everyone—amen.

If the Ax is Dull it Takes More Strength

“If the ax is dull, And one does not sharpen the edge, Then he must use more strength; But wisdom brings success.” 

—Ecclesiastes 10:10

Most of us, if we were to chop wood, probably wouldn’t use an ax. Maybe a chainsaw and wood splitter, but probably not an ax. 

However, the analogy in Ecclesiastes 10 is not just about an ax, I believe it’s a metaphor about us and us being dull instead of being sharp. It’s about how it takes more effort when we lose our edge. 

Being sharp helps cut through resistance quicker! It also makes us sharper for the daily routines of life.

The word dull simple means, “lacking.” Have you ever felt like that you have lacked wisdom, lacked vision, lacked creativity, lacked imagination, lacked good judgement, lacked confidence, or lacked compassion. Me too. 

The realization alone should demand a change. It should initiate a reset.

Nevertheless, there is another word that stuck out to me in this verse as well. That word is wisdom. Wisdom means: good sense, skill and prudence. 

Prudence means: the ability to govern and discipline oneself by the use of reason. 

Another words, wisdom makes me aware that I’m dull. It allows me to realize that I’ve lost my edge. And, it will give me the ability to govern myself in order to do something about it! And ultimately, over time, this will bring with it success.

Here’s the problem with the ax being dull, you don’t know it is dull until you begin to use it. And, you don’t realize that you’ve lost your edge until you begin to engage in something that demands intentional effort. 

Nonetheless, when you do realize it, you need to stop chopping and start sharpening. Step away and refresh, reflect, refocus, reset, and realign.

What happens when you become dull? What happens when you lose your focus? What happens when you lose your edge?

– Work gets harder and tasks take more energy. 

– You don’t have the strength to put forth the effort that is needed.

– Things become a bigger deal and you feel overwhelmed.

– Your mind consistently drifts and you lose focus easily.

– Frustration becomes inevitable because goals appear unattainable.

So, what do you do?

Reflect (think about where you are and what got you to this point) → Realign → Refocus → Readjust

1. Realign – Get back in the right direction.

2. Refocus – Fix your attention on what matters most.

3. Readjust – Make the changes needed to move forward effectively.

* Pause. Realign. Refocus. Readjust.

* Realign your heart. Refocus your mind. Readjust your actions.

* Realign your priorities. Refocus your purpose. Readjust your path.

Sharpening an ax and chopping with an ax requires two different postures:

* You stand to chop, but you sit to sharpen.

* You react while chopping, but you become intentional while sharpening.

* You keep moving when you chop, but you pause when you sharpen.

Chopping gets the work done for today; sharpening prepares you for the work ahead.

The challenge is that most people make time to chop but never take time to sharpen.

You have to step away from the routine of the process in order to sharpen the edge.

When you pause to rest, reflect, learn, and grow, you become more effective in every area of life. 

Sharpening may feel like you’re losing ground, but it’s actually preparing you to move farther, faster, and with greater impact.

Take time for yourself and sharpen your edge. It will make everything easier, and in time you will achieve greater success.

Mindsets Matter

Mindsets Matter

Throughout Scripture, giants are a recurring theme. They often represent the obstacles standing between God’s people and God’s promises—the blessing, the purpose, and the prize. Time and again, the promise was found on the other side of what God’s people were willing to face, confront, and overcome through faith, courage, and obedience.

Yet in my own life, the greatest giant has not been Goliath or the giants of the Nephilim. The greatest giant I face is the one staring back at me in the mirror.

My biggest battles are not with external enemies but with internal struggles—doubt, fear, insecurity, negative thinking, and limiting beliefs.

I want to talk about mindsets and self-perception, because I do not want the way you see yourself to keep you from stepping into what is next and what God has for your life.

Mindsets matter because mindsets shape futures.

You can have a mindset that says, “I can,” or a mindset that says, “I can’t.”

You can have a mindset that says, “We will,” or one that says, “We won’t.”

It all begins with what you believe and is revealed by how you frame your circumstances.

Proverbs 23:7 says, “As a man thinks in his heart, so is he.” In other words, our character, actions, and direction in life are shaped by our thoughts, beliefs, and self-perceptions.

Romans 12:2 says, “Let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think.”

Your life can change by changing the way you think. And, before God changes our direction, He often changes our thinking.

What Is a Mindset?

A mindset is a set of beliefs, attitudes, and assumptions that shape how a person thinks, interprets experiences, treats others, and responds to challenges.

A mindset is the mental posture you take toward life.

It is the internal lens through which you see yourself, others, and the world around you.

Your mindset influences:

* How you handle setbacks

* How you view success and failure

* How you approach learning and growth

* How you respond to opportunities

* How you relate to others

Simply put, a mindset is also your mental picture of yourself—it is your self-perception.

A mindset is a belief.

For example:

A negative mindset says:

* “That’s just the way I am.”

* “It’s always been that way.”

* “That’s not my thing.”

* “I could never do that.”

A positive mindset says:

* “I can improve.”

* “I can grow.”

* “I can learn.”

* “Things can change.”

* “With God’s help, I can become more.”

If you don’t change what you believe and how you think, things are not going to be different. Nothing changes, until something changes.

The decision to change how you think about yourself, your circumstances, and your future will ultimately determine the “story of your life.”

Remember: you enter every situation mind first.

Nothing changes until your mind changes.

There must be a mindset change before there can be a life change.

The Power of a Mindset

In Numbers 13, God instructed Moses to send twelve spies into the Promised Land. Their assignment was simple: explore the land God had already promised to give them.

After forty days, they returned with two very different reports.

Joshua and Caleb said:

“Let us go up at once and take possession, for we are well able to overcome it.”

Ten other spies looked at the same land, saw the same opportunities, and witnessed the same evidence of God’s promise, yet they came back saying:

“We saw the giants… and we were in our own sight as grasshoppers, and so we were in their sight.”

Twelve spies.

One land.

One promise.

But two completely different mindsets.

Ten spies focused on the obstacles.

Two spies focused on God’s ability.

Most people today cannot name the ten spies who said, “We can’t.”

But nearly everyone remembers Joshua and Caleb, the two men who said, “We can.”

I wonder how many opportunities we miss because obstacles appear too large.

I wonder how many blessings we forfeit because fear speaks louder than faith.

I wonder how many doors remain unopened because we allow our self-perception to determine our possibilities.

Because of the mindset of the ten spies, an entire generation wandered in the wilderness for forty years instead of enjoying the Promised Land.

It took only forty days to get Israel out of Egypt, but it took forty years to get Egypt out of Israel.

The real problem was not geography—it was mentality.

The wilderness wasn’t around them; it was within them.

The Grasshopper Mentality

One statement from the spies is particularly fascinating:

“We were in our own sight as grasshoppers, and so we were in their sight.”

Think about that.

The spies did not have mirrors.

The giants never saw them.

They entered the land secretly and left unnoticed.

The giants never called them grasshoppers.

The spies called themselves grasshoppers.

Their greatest obstacle was not the giants they faced but the image they carried of themselves.

The battle was happening in their minds before it ever reached the battlefield.

What they believed about themselves determined what they believed was possible.

And the same is true for us.

What you choose to believe about yourself, your future, your challenges, and your God will largely determine what you experience in life.

Your mindset will shape your actions.

Your actions will shape your future.

And your future will become your story.

What Will Your Story Be?

What do you want to be remembered for?

Will your story be, “I can’t,” or “I can”?

Will it be, “We won’t,” or “We will”?

Will it be fear or faith?

Excuses or action?

Defeat or determination?

The choice you make today may determine the story you tell tomorrow.

The reason I chose this passage is because I want to see you blessed. I want to see you experience the opportunities, purpose, and potential God has placed before you.

I want you to believe that a different mindset is possible.

A mindset that says:

“I can.”

“I will.”

“With God’s help, I am able.”

Because when you change your thinking, you begin changing your future.

As Romans 12:2 reminds us:

“Let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think.”

So I leave you with this declaration:

I can, and I will.

Say it with me:

“I can, and I will!”

WHY IS GOOD FRIDAY—GOOD

“He went on a little farther and bowed with his face to the ground, praying, “My Father! If it is possible, let this cup of suffering be taken away from me. Yet I want your will to be done, not mine.”” Matthew‬ ‭26‬:‭39‬

“But he was pierced for our rebellion, crushed for our sins. He was beaten so we could be whole. He was whipped so we could be healed.” Isaiah‬ ‭53‬:‭5‬

7 Significant Places Christ
Shed His Precious Blood

“We can plead the Precious Blood over our Past, Present and Future.”

  1. THE GARDEN (Sweat Great Drops of Blood)
    Deals with our WILL—Power to do the right thing.
  2. THE WHIPPING POST (39 Stripes—39 Root Diseases) Deals with our HEALTH—Manifestation for healing.
  3. INTERNAL BLEEDING (Kicked & Bruised)
    Deals with our EMOTIONS—Internal healing.
  4. CROWN OF THORNS (Pierced His Brow)
    Deals with our MIND—Peace of Mind. [Also our eyes, ears and mouth].
  5. HANDS (Were Pierced–[wrists])
    Deals with our PRESENT—What we touch-What we take back.
  6. FEET (Were Pierced-[front leg ankle])
    Deals with our FUTURE—Where we are going. “Everywhere our feet trod.”
  7. SIDE (Was Pierced) Deals with our SALVATION & FULLNESS of JOY—Blood and Water for purification. Sack of Water around the Heart for Fullness of Joy.

That’s Not Who I Am!

When Jesus asked His disciples, “Who do you say that I am?” I believe that He already knew the answer to that question. There is no doubt that He knew who He was. Nonetheless, He asked the question anyway. However, the problem with asking this question is that the answer would be based on people’s assumptions, ideas, perceptions, experiences and a reputation that has been perceived—not necessarily reality, or actuality. Other people’s opinions of Jesus was just that, they were opinions based on perceptions that were concluded by a reputation that had been concluded by their own perceptions.

Assumptions, perceptions and opinions aren’t necessarily reality. However, they definitely can be thought of as such. Jesus in asking the question, knew what others were saying about Him. He knew how others perceived him. Nevertheless, he asked His disciples, “Who do you say that I am.” But the disciples answered with what others said, “Some say that you are John the Baptist, others say Elijah and some say, Jeremiah.” and the Jesus said, “But who do you say that I am?” And of course Peter answered, “You are the Messiah, the Son of the Living God.”

Jesus answered the Peter was correct and that he was blessed because know what taught him that, but that Jesus Father had revealed that to him. It wasn’t flesh or blood or reasoning or personal perception that had revealed that to Peter—it was God. You see our opinions and perceptions are not as important as what God is saying or what the Holy Spirit is revealing to us. We can have an opinion, but it’s just an opinion. Others can have an opinion, but it’s just an opinion. All of our perceptions and opinions are formulated through many sources and variables.

Jesus knew who he was and he knew who and where he had come from—His Father in heaven. It’s important to know who you are. Not what others say about you, but who you really are. The person you really are, because that’s who God knows and that’s who God loves. The real you! God really knows us and He loves us unconditionally. Have you ever had someone say something about you and you say or think, “That’s not true! That’s not who I am.” Jesus probably thought the same thing, especially when they called Him a blasphemer or Beelzebub.

If we asked God who He says we are He would say that you are forgiven, justified, righteous, redeemed and holy. He would say that you are a new creation in Christ. He would say that you are a work of progress that is continually being shaped in to His image. You see it’s not as important as what others say as it is what you say. Don’t say what God is not saying and don’t always believe what others may say either. What you say and what others say aren’t as important as what God and His word is saying. Our opinions and others opinions are based on perceptions, assumptions and opinions, but what God and His word says is the eternal truth and it is our compass for receiving acceptance and wholeness. Allow God and His word to reveal to you who you are in Him.