Author: Rob Collins

Forgive and Forget

Posted on by Rob Collins in Messages

When you read Philippians 3:13 Paul says, he forgets whats behind him and does his best to reach for what is ahead of him. In verse fourteen he goes on to say that he runs straight toward all that Christ Jesus has laid hold of for him. This is a good formula that he establishes for us. One that we could all follow: 1. Forget what’s behind you. 2. Reach for whats ahead of you and 3. Run toward what Christ has obtained for you to possess. The process of forgetting is not always easy. Nonetheless, you must forget on purpose. In other words, if you are going to forget it’s not going to happen by accident, its going to happen on purpose. If you forget where you put your phone, your wallet, or your keys, thats by accident, not on purpose. If you are going to forget a wrong, or a fault, or a hurt. You are going to have to do that on purpose and here’s how: You can forget on purpose by replacing the thoughts of the fault or the wrong with another thought. A positive thought, a scripture, or a prayer. You can also forget on purpose by not rehearsing it. Thats right! The more you talk about it, the more you will think about it. And, the more you think about it, the more you will talk about it. Stop the cycle and let it go! Jesus forgave so that we could forgive, forget, and be forgiven. *(Lk 24) Some of last few words He spoke were words of forgiveness: He forgave the thief on the cross… “this day you will be with me in paradise.” He said, “Father forgive them do they know not what they are doing.” This statement is interesting because there are many times when people are probably vindictive and purposeful with their actions or deeds of hurt and hate. But not always. I believe there are many times when people don’t even realize that what they are doing or saying is hurtful. Jesus covers that when He says, “forgive them for they know not what they are doing.” I believe the next statement of Christ explains how He felt and that He was experiencing. Remember, Jesus wasn’t dying to be forgiven of His sins, He was dying so that we might be forgiven of our sins. Nevertheless in His next statement He said this, “Into thy hands I commit my *spirit” *(pneuma: deep part of one’s being). In other words, publicly, He committed Himself into the hands and care of His Father who cared for Him. I believe Jesus made was difficult, awkward, and private, a public matter. He did this so that we might be empowered. Remember, “Forgiveness doesn’t minimize the fault of the offender, it brings freedom to the offended.” It’s difficult to forgive when you can’t forget. And, it’s difficult to forget, when you can’t forgive. These two crucibles are linked to one another. If you want to freedom you must learn the art of forgiving and forgetting. Forget about what’s behind you and reach for whats ahead of you. Run towards everything that Christ has laid hold of for you:  Salvation, healing, peace, joy, strength, hope, and forgiveness. Forgive those that don’t deserve it. Forgive those that do. Forgive and forget! It’s easy, but it is worth it! Why is it so difficult to forgive and forget?

5 Reasons Why It’s Hard to Forgive and Forget:

1. You feel like you are letting the person off the hook or minimizing the fault.

2. You want to rehearse and nurse the fault, instead of releasing it while being empowered, liberated, and healed.

3. You want to talk about it; therefore you can’t forget about it, and, no one else can either.

4. You verbalize it because you want others to know what you’ve experienced and how you feel.

5. You want to get back at or at least allow the offender to feel what you have felt and are dealing with internally.

Here are 5 Ways to Forgive and Forget: 

  1. “Confess forgiveness not the fault.”
  2. “Release it, don’t rehearse it.”
  3. “Don’t take it on yourself to repay a wrong. Trust the Lord and He will make it right.” (Proverbs‬ ‭20:22‬ ‭GNT‬‬)
  4. “Take it out of your hands and put it in God’s hands.”
  5. “Deal with conviction and rebuke condemnation.”

Romans 8:1 “There is therefore no condemnation for those who are in Christ.”

*Christ was convicted and condemned by man. But, He was accepted by God.
(He was convicted and condemned undeservingly. So we wouldn’t receive the condemnation we deserved. We are accepted by God through Christ). He forgave and forgot so that we could be redeemed by grace through faith. He is our example and we must do the same; we must forgive and forget.

It’s hard to forget when you are feeling condemnation or conviction. It’s difficult to forgive when you can’t forget. That’s why: Conviction has to be resolved and Condemnation has to be rebuked.

The cross says there is now no Condemnation for those who belong to Christ.

  • Conviction comes from God through the Holy Spirit.
  • Condemnation comes from the devil, self, and other people.

 

  • Conviction corrects something that’s not right in your life.
  • Condemnation puts you down and makes you feel guilty, miserable and ashamed.

 

  • Conviction is from God’s love for you and His desire to help you be better.
  • Condemnation is from Satan’s hatred and his desire to make you miserable.

 

  • Conviction is specific.
  • Condemnation is general.

 

  • Conviction has a solution from it’s source.
  • Condemnation has no end from it’s source. (It’s only end is found in Christ)

The cross empowers us to conquer our convictions and cast down our condemnations. It Give us the power to forgive and forget.

 

The God who knows everything chooses to forget. “I will forgive their sins and will no longer remember their wrongs.” (Hebrews 8:12) #forgetit #2018

Ask God for the power and grace to forgive and forget! Conviction comes from God to help you. Condemnation is not from God. It comes from satan, self, and from others. You are not to condemn or live under condemnation. Forgive and forget and live at peace with God, your self, and others. Forgive them and Forget it!

Covered

Posted on by Rob Collins in Blog, Messages

Joseph, the one who famous for his robe of many colors was his father’s favorite son. I believe there were two reasons for this. First, he was the firstborn of his daddy’s heartthrob Rachel, and secondly, Joseph had a heart for God and heard from Him in a uniquely special way. You remember the story don’t you? Joseph’s father Israel, aka Jacob, had a brother named Esau. There was some deception, some stew, and the great exchange. The birthright was surrendered and the plot continued to unfold. There was also a wrestling match won by God and Jacob became Israel. Now Jacob had a “thing” for Rachel. But there were two sisters Rachel and Leah. Their father, Laban, who would later become Jacob’s father in law… twice, had some mischievous deception of his own… he tricked Jacob into marrying the wrong sister, Leah. Anyway, Joseph’s working for his father in law finally paid off. He married Rachel (his dream girl) and their first child was Joseph. That’s right, his daddy’s favorite, and the coat he wore that was made by his father, represented what everyone already knew. The coat, however, seemed to be a bigger deal to his brothers and everyone else then it did to Joseph.

Joseph was a dreamer. But, when he told his dream to his brothers, they didn’t like it. As a matter a fact, they got so mad they stripped him of the coat of many colors and through him in a pit. While they were having some lunch, they began to feel bad for what they had done. So, they drug him out of the pit and sold him to some slave traitors that just happened to be passing by. They then took the coat they stripped him of and dipped in blood, took it to their father, and told him that Joseph their brother, his son, had been killed by wild animals. Their father wept bitterly. However, it was all a lie. Joseph was alive. The coat nonetheless, was never mentioned in the story again. All the while, Joseph never stopped dreaming, and he continued to walk in the favor of his God. Although the coat was history, what it represented lived on in Joseph long after the coat was forgotten about.

He didn’t waiver when he stripped of his coat. That’s because he still possessed what it represented. What he had was based on an internal “knowing”, not an external “seeing”. His earthly father gave him the coat. But, his Heavenly Father gave him the promise. The promise was eternal and internal, not external or maternal. Joseph knew that what he was wearing wasn’t who he was. In other words it wasn’t his identity, it was just a reminder of what he already knew. He was cOVERed! He was a dreamer favored by both his earthly, and his Heavenly Father. He knew that what was happening at the moment in his present situation wouldn’t deter what was going to happen in his promised future. He was a dreamer with a promise; even in the midst of problems. When Joseph was sold to the slave traders that were passing by he was probably given a slave’s robe. But, he didn’t allow that define him because it wasn’t who he was. He was a son with a promise, not a slave! When he was purchased to serve at Potiphar’s house he was probably given a servant’s robe. But, he didn’t allow it to affect him because that wasn’t who he was. He was a son with a promise, not Potiphar’s servant. When he was thrown into prison on false accusations he was probably given a prisoner’s robe. But, he didn’t let that affect him because that wasn’t who he was. He was a son with a promise, not a prisoner. Joseph was covered! He didn’t ask for it, he just received and walked in it. His earthly father gave him the coat of many colors and no one could take what it represented. It represented an earthly blessing and heavenly favor.

Joseph was thrown in a pit, sold to slave traders, purchased by Potiphar, betrayed by Potiphar’s wife, forgotten about in prison but, he never lost sight of his promise. Everything that was put on Joseph was given by someone else. His daddy put the robe of many colors on him. The slave traders put the robe of slavery on him. Potiphar put the robe of a servant on him. The jailer put the robe of a jailer on him. Remembered this: what others put on you doesn’t have to define you! People will put labels, opinions, and expectations on you, but don’t let it define you. When they took Joseph’s robe they didn’t take what it represented. In other words, when Joseph was stripped of his robe of many colors he didn’t stop dreaming or believing and the favor and blessings didn’t stop either! The coat represented his dream, and his promise. But, it wasn’t his dream or promise, it was a robe. Joseph was cOVERed with a colorful coat made by his father. It represented favor, but, it wasn’t his favor. His favor was his favor. Even in the midst of problems Joseph had a promise. Even in the midst of frustration he had favor. That’s why Joseph didn’t pout in the pit, plead at Potiphar’s House, or protest in prison. Instead, he allowed God to elevate him to a position of power so that he could provide prosperity and provision for those that had caused him problems. You see when you know your cOVERed it doesn’t matter where you are, or what you have, or what someone is trying to put on you. What matters is that you know who you are, and most of all, whose you are. When you know your cOVERed you can get OVER whatever is your going through, so you can get to where it is your meant to be! No matter what you’re going through… God’s got you cOVERed!!!

PeaceKeeper PeaceMaker

Posted on by Rob Collins in Blog, Messages

“Face It!” (James 3:13-18)

Jesus said, “I’ve come that you might have peace; not as the world gives but that only I can give.” Jn. 14:27

“I will give peace to the one who’s mind is fixed on me.” Is. 26:3

“The peace of God will transcend all understanding and guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.” Phil. 4:7

“Blessed are the PeaceMakers for they will be called the children of God.” Matt. 5:9

*A PeaceKeeper will avoid conflict by treading lightly around the real issue or by acting like a real issue doesn’t even exist.

*A PeaceMaker will strive to resolve conflicts and seek to reconcile conflicted relationships.

*A PeaceKeeper is a mediator (takes middle ground acting between two parties in a disagreement).

*A PeaceMaker is a reconciler (One who settles or resolves differences in a conflict).

> It’s my desirethat youhave peacein your heart, in your mind and in relationships with others.

You will be miserable if you don’t have peace.

***It takes wisdom to discern when to make peace and when to keep peace.

⁃ You can only make peace when you first have peace yourself.

⁃ You can only make peace when those in conflict desire peace.

⁃ You can only make peace when you begin to sow peace.

 

How Do You Strive to Make Peace? *(You can’t fix what you won’t face).

1.Ask God for wisdom and a way.

2.Make the first move if no one is else is moving and you feel led.

3.Don’t wait on someone else to make the first move; especially if you are the one in the wrong.

4.Don’t accuse or excuse.

5.Don’t build hateful or hurtful opinions when you don’t know all the facts.

6.Don’t wait until it’s too late.

7.Know that sometimes the only thing you can do is keep the peace; but don’t let it steal your peace.

8.Realize making peace is not contingent upon you alone.

9.Focus on the person more than the problem.

10.Focus on reconciliation more than being right.

11.Stop talking and start listening.

12.Quit confessing what needs to be forgotten.

Peace is an atmosphere that is produced by proper patterns that embodies a Spirit-Led Christ centered life.

To be a PeaceMaker means you produce peace in situations, circumstances and, in the lives of others by giving what you have received from God first. His peace!

As much as it depends on you, leave at peace with everyone.

Sometimes you have to face it to fix it! But, sometimes you have to release it to receive true peace.